Co-Parenting
Raise a child with a partner — romantic or platonic — with shared expectations from the beginning.
Join the fastest‑growing global community for people who want to become parents with intention - through co‑parenting, dating with purpose, or known sperm donation.

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Intentional parenthood is one of the fastest-growing shifts in modern family-building.
More people are choosing to build families without waiting for traditional timelines, roles, or romantic structures to align perfectly — and they want clarity, consent, and alignment from the start.
Modamily is a modern family-building platform designed to support people exploring intentional paths to parenthood outside of traditional dating. We help individuals and families connect with aligned co-parents and known sperm donors — thoughtfully, safely, and transparently.
Founded in 2011 by Ivan Fatovic, Modamily pioneered this space and has grown into the world’s largest known-donor and co-parenting matching community.
Raise a child with a partner — romantic or platonic — with shared expectations from the beginning.
Build a romantic relationship where family goals are aligned early, not postponed.
Connect with known donors or become a donor yourself — prioritizing transparency, consent, and informed decision-making.
Everything we do is built around three intentional paths to parenthood.

Find a platonic co-parent aligned with your values, vision, and readiness.
Many people don’t want to wait for romance to begin parenthood. Modamily enables intentional co-parenting through transparency, structure, and informed decision-making from the start.
Support includes:

Meet people who are dating with intention and open to building a family.
Tired of mainstream dating apps built around casual connections and unclear intentions? Modamily reimagines dating for people who know they want children — sooner or later — and want honest conversations from the beginning.
On Modamily, you’ll meet an inclusive, values-aligned community where family goals aren’t awkward to discuss — they’re the point.
A transparent alternative to anonymous sperm banks.
Modamily is home to the world’s largest community of known sperm donors and co-parenting-minded individuals, with 20,000+ donors globally.
Donor profiles include:


Help others build families — intentionally and transparently.
Modamily also supports people who are interested in becoming a known sperm donor and want to contribute in a thoughtful, informed way.
Known donors on Modamily typically value:
Modamily Concierge is our premium, high-touch matchmaking service for individuals and couples seeking personalized guidance through complex or high-stakes family-building decisions.
With over a decade of experience, Concierge clients receive:

Whether you’re exploring, planning, or ready to begin, Modamily meets you where you are. Join a global community built around clarity, intention, and support.
“I didn’t want to wait for the perfect relationship to start a family. Through Modamily, I met a like-minded co-parent who shared my values, timeline, and vision for raising a child. We’re now raising our daughter together—with clarity, boundaries, and mutual respect.”
Sarah, 38 — Los Angeles
Platonic Co-Parenting
“I wanted to be a parent, but not through traditional dating. Modamily helped me connect with a known donor who aligned with my expectations around involvement, transparency, and long-term planning. Today, I’m a Mom—and I did it on my own terms.”
“We met through Modamily knowing we both wanted children—but not necessarily romance. What started as intentional conversations turned into a deeply respectful partnership. Our son was born last year, and we’ve built a family structure that truly works for us.”
Emily & Mark, 35 & 39 — New York