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Join the fastest‑growing global community for people who want to become parents with intention - through co‑parenting, dating with purpose, or known sperm donation.

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Dating and Families

Why Modamily Exists

Intentional parenthood is one of the fastest-growing shifts in modern family-building.

More people are choosing to build families without waiting for traditional timelines, roles, or romantic structures to align perfectly — and they want clarity, consent, and alignment from the start.

Modamily is a modern family-building platform designed to support people exploring intentional paths to parenthood outside of traditional dating. We help individuals and families connect with aligned co-parents and known sperm donors — thoughtfully, safely, and transparently.

Founded in 2011 by Ivan Fatovic, Modamily pioneered this space and has grown into the world’s largest known-donor and co-parenting matching community.

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3 Ways People Build Families on Modamily

Co-Parenting

Raise a child with a partner — romantic or platonic — with shared expectations from the beginning.

Dating → Leading to Family

Build a romantic relationship where family goals are aligned early, not postponed.

Known Sperm Donation

Connect with known donors or become a donor yourself — prioritizing transparency, consent, and informed decision-making.

 
Modamily isn’t about dating for fun.
It’s about helping people build families with intention, clarity, and choice.

The Three Paths to Parenthood on Modamily

Everything we do is built around three intentional paths to parenthood.

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Intentional Co‑Parenting

Find a platonic co-parent aligned with your values, vision, and readiness.

Many people don’t want to wait for romance to begin parenthood. Modamily enables intentional co-parenting through transparency, structure, and informed decision-making from the start.

Support includes:

  • Profile moderation and identity verification

  • Tools to set expectations early around roles, timelines, and values

  • Guidance on parenting frameworks and legal considerations (via education and referrals)
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Dating → Leading to Family

Meet people who are dating with intention and open to building a family.

Tired of mainstream dating apps built around casual connections and unclear intentions? Modamily reimagines dating for people who know they want children — sooner or later — and want honest conversations from the beginning.

On Modamily, you’ll meet an inclusive, values-aligned community where family goals aren’t awkward to discuss — they’re the point.

Find Matches Who Want a Family

Known Sperm Donors

A transparent alternative to anonymous sperm banks.

Modamily is home to the world’s largest community of known sperm donors and co-parenting-minded individuals, with 20,000+ donors globally.

Donor profiles include:

  • Open-ID donor profiles
  • Medical, lifestyle, and family history visibility
  • Clear preferences around contact, boundaries, and involvement
  • Referrals to genetic testing and fertility professionals
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Become a Known Donor

Help others build families — intentionally and transparently.

Modamily also supports people who are interested in becoming a known sperm donor and want to contribute in a thoughtful, informed way.

Known donors on Modamily typically value:

  • Clear expectations around involvement and boundaries
  • Transparency and mutual consent from the start
  • Education around legal, medical, and family-building considerations

 

Modamily Concierge

Personal matchmaking for people who want expert support.

Modamily Concierge is our premium, high-touch matchmaking service for individuals and couples seeking personalized guidance through complex or high-stakes family-building decisions.

With over a decade of experience, Concierge clients receive:

  • A dedicated matchmaker
  • Personalized candidate sourcing and vetting
  • Thoughtful introductions and facilitated communication
  • Guidance around legal, medical, and financial considerations (via education and referrals)
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Start Building Your Family

Whether you’re exploring, planning, or ready to begin, Modamily meets you where you are. Join a global community built around clarity, intention, and support.

“I didn’t want to wait for the perfect relationship to start a family. Through Modamily, I met a like-minded co-parent who shared my values, timeline, and vision for raising a child. We’re now raising our daughter together—with clarity, boundaries, and mutual respect.”

Sarah, 38 — Los Angeles
Platonic Co-Parenting

“I wanted to be a parent, but not through traditional dating. Modamily helped me connect with a known donor who aligned with my expectations around involvement, transparency, and long-term planning. Today, I’m a Mom—and I did it on my own terms.”

Daniele, 42 — Miami
Known Donor Path

“We met through Modamily knowing we both wanted children—but not necessarily romance. What started as intentional conversations turned into a deeply respectful partnership. Our son was born last year, and we’ve built a family structure that truly works for us.”

Emily & Mark, 35 & 39 — New York
Intentional Family Building